“Let us speak about letting go of emotions.
It is clear that for those who have chosen the spiritual path, the opening of their consciousness and the material letting go will be more readily achieved than the emotional letting go.
What does ‘emotional letting go', mean? We will ask: how do you love? Do you ever ask yourself the question: how do I love this or that person? You would sometimes be very surprised at the answer.
Many humans love, in the first place, for themselves, to feel secure, to be comforted. Love demonstrated by the other is Love they cannot give themselves, thus they seek in the other what they are unable to give themselves.
Emotional letting go is achieved gradually. It can only happen once you have further integrated inner peace, joy and self-confidence; it can only take place when you have understood that in a relationship, Love for the other takes precedence, not Love that you expect from him or her. You must learn to love the other, whether he or she is a friend, a relative, a child, or a companion.
Learn to love the other for him or her and not for you. This Love is really Unconditional Love, this kind of Love will not bring you suffering as all you are seeking is the other person's happiness, no matter how this happiness must happen. If this happiness causes you suffering, this means that as yet you do not know how to love him or her.
We see how you operate on this three-dimensional planet, and we understand that you biggest handicap is to learn to love well, to learn to love yourself, to learn to love others.
Letting go will then be very easy as it can take place in total self-confidence, in the certainty that the loved one loves you completely, really, and in a pure way. Consequently, the loved one will never bring you torments since nothing and nobody will be able to destabilize you at the emotional level. By the way, the word ‘emotional' is no longer appropriate to name this Love. Emotional disappears to make room for Unconditional Love, for the kind of Love that liberates you.
Emotional love traps you, Unconditional Love liberates you; first, it liberates you from yourself and then it liberates you from the other person. When we say that it liberates you, we mean that you are no longer a prisoner of this Love, and that you can love in total freedom without fear of suffering.
Unconditional Love requires a long training period, and can only be acquired step by step, when you understand who you are and how you function, when you accept to let go at each moment of your existence, with only one goal: the happiness of the other person, of other people. Your own happiness made up of bliss, peace and joy will automatically come through the happiness of other people.
Many of you have already worked hard on Unconditional Love, through much suffering and sacrifice, yet the path you are now pursuing is one that you have chosen. Even if it may sometimes appear difficult, know that it is the most beautiful path a human being can take.
Reap as much as possible the Energy of true Love, which differs from the illusion of Love. Learn first to know true Love and not delusive Love.
True Love forgives all, true Love never judges, true Love can only seek the happiness of the other person, of other people; it always gives and does not take, it radiates.
With little courage and patience, with much self-confidence and faith, you will slowly come to integrate the consciousness of True Love. You are close to reaching it, this requires only a little more work, a little more cleansing, a little more acceptance and tolerance, and above all much more Love for your own Self.
During all the years that we have been teaching you, and which have brought us tremendous joy, our only goal has been to awaken you to Unconditional Love, to True Love, to this unimaginable power that is real Love. However, before you could understand its value, its power, you also needed to be transformed, to open up more each day to a new consciousness, to a new way to appreciate yourself and appreciate life, to open up to new knowledge. Through all the experiments that you have faced so far and that you will face in the future, you will discover even more what the meaning of ‘to love' is, what the meaning of ‘Love' is.
Praise for the Love within your heart, praise for the Love which is within those you meet, praise for the Light in the eyes of those that surround you, praise for the beauty and the peace which is taking place within you.”